How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 07:54
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
What is so great about Jiraiya?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Making more friends is a goal.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Does not procrastinate.
What trains transport cars and passengers near Pompano Beach, Florida that goes to New York?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
That's it for today.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Do any other guys like to eat cum of another man from their wife's pussy?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
If people in the UK hate Trump so much, why does he own golf courses there?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Why is it that women are stronger than men nowadays?
What I need from you?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
What is the worst thing your sibling has done?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Do not set goals—set systems.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Ask yourself:
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
Losing 20kg is a goal.